A strong emotional connection is the cornerstone of any healthy and fulfilling relationship. It is what allows partners to feel safe, understood, and supported. It creates intimacy, encourages personal growth, and improves communication.
Hi, I’m Dr. Termary Hernandez, and in this article, I’ll explore several key elements of a relationship that can strengthen the emotional bond between you and your partner.
Empathic Communication
Empathy involves stepping outside your own perspective and trying to understand the world from your partner’s point of view.
When done well, having empathy is what lets you make space for your partner’s feelings. For example, an empathic statement gives the other person the feeling you “get them” – even if you disagree.
By practicing empathy, your partner feels heard and understood. This creates intimacy and emotional connection – and a sense of being loved.
Emotional Availability
Emotional availability is the action side of emotional connection. It means being present and engaged with your partner’s emotional world.
This means actively being attentive to what is going on for the other person so they can share their experiences with someone who is interested.
Some specific ways to be emotionally available include being a pillar of strength and understanding while they navigate difficult situations. Celebrate their successes, no matter how big or small, and maybe most importantly, show genuine happiness for their achievements.
Also, on your side, practice sharing your thoughts and emotions. Do this in a kind and loving way. Sharing your vulnerabilities builds trust and intimacy.
Shared Values and Goals
Sharing core values and goals is a big predictor of happy, successful relationships. This doesn’t mean complete uniformity, but rather having a common direction and compatibility in key aspects of life.
Do you and your partner have similar aspirations for the future, such as career goals, lifestyle choices, or financial plans? Working towards these goals together creates a sense of unity and purpose, which builds connection.
Also, do you and your partner enjoy spending time together and prioritize making time for shared activities and interests?
This can be anything from pursuing hobbies together to simply enjoying regular conversation and connection. Having these shared experiences strengthens the emotional bond and fosters a sense of companionship and partnership.
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